Love

ASSALAMU`ALAIKUM WARAHMATULLAH

Shoot. Sony has just launched their Sony Xperia Z1. If only I waited patient enough, I'd have it in my hand. The specifications are amazing. The accessories are superb. I'd even think these two comments are understatements. Zulfadhli and Izzuddin are now casting their usual provocative remarks upon the consequence of my impatience. Anyway, I'm not going to purchase it. Sony Xperia Z is a smartphone alright. About the best phone I have ever had.

Love

If you love someone, you'd sacrifice for them. Not everything. You'd have to prioritize your religion and faith. If you love someone, you'll pull them to what you have in mind which you think right. You'll approach them with ways that will bridge them to the truth. This is a very basic knowledge a lover should have. Else is peripheral. Else is not compulsory.

But, so as your feeling to have that obligation to attract them towards your circle, they too are pulling you towards theirs. We call this idiosyncrasy. We look like a complete couple from the outside, but we're parrying sentiments in the inside. Both are trying to win over. Both are trying to not losing. It's not hatred towards our partner's religion that causes us to do so, ironically, it's our love.

How to win?

Don't think how to win. Just act and react in accordance to your religion. Truth will win over, not you. True love flows through sincerity and genuineness, not some staged scenes of showing what your religion actually teaches. Truth shines from the window of sincerity, not hypocrisy. Believe in His Plans. Have faith fully upon His Mercy. This way, you'll always be restful and not restless.

How to utter?

"I love you" is a hard sentence to be expressed, so to speak. Even to our closed ones, we find it difficult to utter it. I don't know why. As if there is this immovable peg that pegs our lips from saying it. But once you've mastered how to say it out loud, you'll immediately understand why. Why? Because it is precious. And precious thing is hard to be obtained. You need guts. You need bravery. You need love to be able to utter it. 

In the end

I am simply a motivator, provider, recommendation-giver and a friend. I can see many of friends are stuck in some sorts of crush dilemmas. Have crush in Allah and Rasulullah SAW. Even though most of the time we forget them and turn our back against them, they'll always be there for us. I'll die soon, and everyone else will too. Stop being humanely-dependent (oh the irony), and start being slavely-dependent upon God. He Knows what to do and what you should do.